To follow.. Or not to follow

I was wondering.. Why chinese confinement got so many things to follow.. unlike the western or others.. simple and easy.... sometimes whether if its true anot.. No ones noe.. they jus say and say.. When you never take care during confinement.. you will have alot of aching all over your body...

My 2 precious baby..

Sometimes i wana follow but i jux find it hard to accept.. no bathing.. no tis and tat.. mux eat tis and tat.. Dun understand... Now hubby helping me do confinement.. But asking me not to touch water.. drink water.. dunno wat i can do.. i tried not.. but at times.. no choice...

Today Lucas has his first bath.. he enjoys it.. no crying.. and when wanting to clean him.. he starts to cry liao.. haha.. he knows what going on..

Genevieve was doing fine at home but at times... you can really see that she is jealous.. She will gives a sad face and now worst.. she doesnt want to go school.. At times when Lucas was sleeping.. she tried to wake him up and wanting to carry him.. play wif him.. But Lucas can onli do tat in e later mth..

I think we have put alot of attention on Genevieve instead of Lucas.. as to pacify her first.. if not her emotion will greatly affected..