lights out, go home and make babies

Recently saw from yahoo page.. Will "lights out.go home and make babies" method work in Singapore.. hahahaaa.. so interesting... wat do you think..

An idea taken from South Korea.. which to boost their nation low birth rate.. Their are encouraging staffs to go home early and make babies by turning off the lights in the office once a month.. but do you think it will really work?

Singapore wanted to use tis method but personally i dun think it will work.. so stupid..

Babies are gifts given to us.. We should cherish it.. We need LOVE.. why government talk like it is so easy.. and they are just to boost the birth rate.. they should find better ways to to help couples be more lovely to one another.. When couples really in LOVE and LOVE increases as they grow... Babies sure will be in their wishlist.. But now divorce rate are so high.. People are so scared of commitment.. Babies are out of the question..

Also Government already gave so much benefits liao.. like babies bonus.. maternity leave.. if people really wan to make babies.. they have done it long ago..

Most people concern are also $$$$.. Standard of living is so high.. everything is abt $$$$... Even people wanted to have babies.. so stress out.. from work.. family.. $$$$.. Stress.. how to make babies... They are so stress out that they need to buy and pay this and that.. They are freaking out even though they wan to have babies..

I do not know what out government can really do.. but i do feel that when couples wanted to have babies.. firstly they must be truly in LOVE.. not jus because of the benefits.. help to boost the birth rate.. they mus really be commited..

I love my hubby and the LOVES grows everyday.. and here i have.. My 2 precious gems... Genevieve and Lucas... My beautiful family..

w.h.y

Few days ago.. was chatting wif my old frien... then dunno why sudden chat abt marriage and children.. He dun wan to be an old father wanted to get married and have kids... but his gf thinks its not the rite time yet... Strange they had been together for veri long... Wonder how his gf thinks when she see my 2 little angels...

My 2 beautiful angels

Mommy help me.. Jie Jie hugging too tight..

He ask me abt what rewards i get for having kids.. ermmmmm.... NO REWARDS.. wat rewards do i need... dun you think is wonderful to have kids... They are the gifts... so beautiful... Its brighten your life.. no words can describe the wonders of kids.. although at times can be a headache.. haha.. but that's the way..

asking me to take pics for her and her stuffs toys

trying to make silly faces

Best helper of the year

Lucas's eyes lashes super long..


His cute sleeping face..


Wonder WHY some people together for so long dun wan get married.. Married liao dun wan kids.. Dun mention those with implication... I have lots of friends together for almost 10 years... still dun want settle down... Then those married liao dun wan kids... haiz...

Children make your life wonderful.. of cos the more the merrier.. and I want more but come to think 2 is enough liao... Standard of living in Singapore is high... and i havent got a job.. mayb when i have a job.. may think of 3rd one.. hahaaa....

big sister, little brother

Big sister Genevieve... Little brother Lucas.. Geneveive is behaving more like a big sister now.. Ignore the time when she is cranky... Now she knows how to carry Lucas and feed him.. so lovely..





wanting Lucas to lay on her


Feeding Lucas


at the same time pose..


Really a BIG sister..

I tried to upload more pics of my 2 babies.. Dunno why sudden my pc cannot bluetooth my hp.. Although hp pix is not good as camera but it is more convenience and more to my reach.. so i have alots of in it..



My 2 babies really brighten up my days.. Their smiles esp Lucas.. really makes my tired days worth it.. Genevieve now knows how to play herself too.. more understanding.. and better.. I love my 2 babies...


playing computer on her own..



Wondering wat am i doing..

cvs

Long time never go CVS alone to shop liao.. So after sending Xinhui to school.. went to CVS on my own.. heee... Wonder where is Lucas rite.. He's at home with hubby.. Hubby was on night shift so i can have some time alone...

I have some xtra bucks due.. and i thought sian.. nothing to buy to roll... but as i walk down the aisle... I saw some air spray on pric cut.. I remember i have some coupons for it so long ago.. I quickly search for it and found it.. grab a few and others items.. can you believe it.. I have 12 xtra bucks.. paid 3bucks cash.. And get back 6xtra bucks... Reasonable rite.. think so..

Home... packing the stuffs and coupons.. found 2more coupons on the air spray.. haha.. go buy again... I only paid 1.50bucks... so many things...

Simply loved buying all these things than shopping.. haha.. Auntie behavior rite... I also think so... But all these can save alot leh... I saw from my friens blog.. they bought alot and onli pay little.. i also want.. but just no time to do all these searching.. can only see wat i can get.. I am happy enough..

shop. and buy.. eat...

Ever since Lucas was born.. I have not been to shopping.. Finally Hubby brought me to grapevine mall for a walk. Although just a little while.. it meant alot to me.. I feel it's a release and i feel so refresh..


I am so happy to go shopping and bought some clothing from BCBG Max... I bought like a matching set.. tops and bottom.. Its a great mark down... Esp the bottom... from 100 plus mark down to 19bucks.. great buy rite.. I remember in Singapore.. BCBG is ex.. but dunno why over here.. its mark so low.. Low but still i spend almost 80bucks.. haha.. feels abit sinful... but i enjoyed..


I simply loved to shop shop shop... buy buy buy... Worst.. i eat eat and eat non stop... Die liao loh.. now thinking how to slim down.. think will take awhile...

r.e.c.a.l.l

Recently i tried to recall the past when Genevieve was still a baby... But no matter how hard i tried to think.. I realised that i do not have much memories about it..


I remember after her 1mth.. awhile later i went back to work.. Left work early morning and reach home late.. I only took care of her in the night.. I dun really remember playing with her as much as i play with Lucas in the day.. Holding her and cuddle her.. Putting her laying on my tummy.. Dun remember much.. All i remember is all her crying...


Hubby lagi worst.. haha... I hardly see him carrying Genevieve and feed her.. and pat her to sleep... No loh.. dun have at all loh.. OMG... but now you can see him carrying Lucas.. cuddle him.. Feeding him even in the middle of the night.. Nothing wakes him up in the past..


I think there is pros and cons.. When Genevieve's times.. We lived with his parents so he never worry or bother anything.. that's bad... Now we are on our own.. Alot of things we have to do it no matter what.. Thus I feels its a pros as it helps to bring us closer... Of cos.. it tired us out at times.. but it all worth it..

old article

Yesterday was doing abit of packing and dug out some old article.. It was some article abt how to deal with toddlers with the bad behavior and kids having their pacificer... It was so long i last read it.. and true enough.. what it wrote.. BINGO.. all matches...



Genevieve is 3 years old liao.. and she rely alot on her pacifier.. We tried to wean it off.. but to no vain.. She cries alot for it.. But after i read the article.. i decided not to bother abt it liao... Expert advise that we shld ignore the habit as children esp 2years and older sucks simply due to boredom.. thus it wont last.. I agree... Emotions do add in to more sucking too.. Like when we force her to sleep.. Pacifier may be use as a comfort object to her..

HERE ARE SOME SIMPLE POINTERS TO HELP CHILDREN TO WEAN OFF PACIFIER

DOs..

Leave the child alone..
If you see that there are no jaws or dental prob... They will eventually stop on their own.. Even for those die die must have one...

Stop daytime time habit...
When they start preschool, they will stop due to peer pressure...

Do Not..

Punish or use harsh words..
By doing so.. It will upset them more and they will cling on to it even longer...

Too much Pressure...
They are still too young and if too much pressure it may cause more harm.. It may affect their emotion too.. Children use it as a way of relaxing and calming themselves.. and going to sleep..

Mayb we have force Genevieve to stop thus it makes her cling onto it till now..




Hubby and i alway think that Genevieve had been veri rough and rude.. Mayb we are over reacted.. I looked around and see the kids at her age behave about the same.. At times i cant still it but to shout and scold her.. Now I tried not to shout at her... scold her.. I tried to talk to her like i used to be.. HAVE TO BE PATIENT..

Before Lucas was born.. I always talk to her and reason with her.. Mayb i am too stress and tired thus.. my shouting gets more.. I tried to spend more time with her when Lucas is sleeping.. but sometimes i really dunno wat i can do together with her.. her toys or handicraft? Teach her to read and write.. In turn she was the one who wan to teach me..

She's not that bad as we think.. Its just that we did not put in effort.. She needs our attention and affection.. I really must admit.. We failed.. mayb tat's why she always mishave to get our attention...

Wanna to tell you

I jux wana to tell you that i am sorry and i love you alot.. I know i have been bad to you and it has been hard on you.. I am truly sorry.. You are always my love.. But what should i do to make you understand..


Since after have Lucas.. My emotion had been greatly affected... I know it had affected you greatly too... I tried to control myself but failed.. I tried to talk to you.. but i do not know whether you understand me anot or you dun wan to listen to me.. I do not want to lose my temper on you.. but you are driving me crazy..


I know i have changed.. But i want to change to better.. I am trying.. Please give me some times.. I know you need my attention.. You need me more than before.. I also know that you feels neglected... But i wana you to know..


I LOVE YOU..

back to school

Xmas is over.. New year is over.. so now it is back to school.. It will not be the same anymore.. Now Lucas will be following me to send Genevieve to school...


I have to get up earlier than before.. prepare everything as fast as i can.. of cos i also must make sure Lucas had his milk first before setting off.. Same is.. having a hard time changing Genevieve to school.. She dun wan to wear tis and tat.. Feels she is getting more rugged..


Its sure is not easy.. Not only i need to take Genevieve's stuffs and also i need carry Lucas.. His BASKET is sure heavy... But still have to go wif it..


I prefer Genevieve going to school.. Not only she can learn.. She can also mixed around wif her friends.. She wont get lonely.. Unlike at home.. She got nothing to do.. I am too tired to play wif her and all she has is the computer.. Her toys.. But if she dun keep them.. She kana scolding from me.. Haiz.. Still thinking to put her 1 more day anot...


Me really looking forward going back to Singapore.. Although prefer the lifes here.. But at least back there.. I have more people to help me look after the kids and also Genevieve wont feels lonely anymore.. She has more accompany..

Gayloard Texas

We went to Gayloard Texas with Janet' family... But you know wat.. when i reach there.. wanted to take pics... OMG.. no memory card.. SHIT.. tat time i took out to upload pics to facebook.. forgotten to put it in.. Lucky can use Janet's camera card..

It was cold tat day.. We wanted to go see the ice so we brought our thick thick jacket... But when we reach there.. They wanted us to wear their jacket.. The kids looked so cute with the jacket on...

We left the ICE early as hubby scare Lucas cold.. We wont know.. but i know he was sleep soundly.. haha... I felt we wasted the tickets.. But it was REAL COLD in there... I also wanted to take a family pic.. Lucas was asleep and so cold to carry him out to take pic.. so we never take.. i dun want to left him out..

I loved the Xmas deco inside the hotel.. It was beautiful... Somehow i wanted to take more pics.. But i feel tat i am really getting into bad shape.. my face.. and body and everythings.. the pics i took dun come out well... SAD...

I looked so UGLY...

big help

Really have to thank Janet and her hubby.. They kept me accompany when hubby was on guard duty... We had a mini steamboat.. Guess wat.. we use our rice cooker.. haha... first time using.. quite fun...


I felt so paisey.. Esp to her daughter.. Aaricia.. Genevieve was behaving like a bully.. keep pushing and lying on her.. doesnt wan to share her toys... Lucky now Aaricia is smarter.. know how to act back... When she jux came.. She dunno.. jux letting Genevieve take the toys away from her...


They also help me look after LUCAS... and he was rather cranky tat day.. They left quite late... Felt so bad so Aaricia was tired liao.. After they left.. i was wondering how to cope.. But i stll go thru liao...

what's wrong..

Wat's wrong wif hubby... He been veri restless and tired for the past 3 days... I am so stressed up and frustrated... I thought he will be better after so many days.. but no loh...

Today brought Genevieve to H-Mart. pased by the bakery and she still remember tat i havent buy the cake and wanted me to buy.. I bought one cause i always wanted to help Lucas do his shower.. But after seeing hubby like tar... make me very sad.... He kept complaining he backpain.. and kept lying on the bed..

I feels so helpless... I dunno wat to do... Tell me wat wrong wif him...

Worst Year End Ever!!

This is my worst year end ever... I should be happy as i have Lucas joining me.. But i am in a very shape... My rashes not gone yet... Seem to be spreading.. I am also tired of expressing but jux Genevieve wont let Lucas latch on me.. Think Lucas also dun like..


Hubby is sick for 3 days liao... He is so restless... No strength or mood to do anything... See doc liao.. But stil the same.. wat's wrong wif him.... Worst Saturday.. Jux after new year.. Hubby got guard duty..


House is in a total mess... Laundry piling up like mountains.. Clothing never iron.. Toys all over the place.. Getting stress and tired.. Wanting call for help.. But help wat... Haiz... I also dunno wat to do.. mind total blurred and blank..